Love...Out of Nowhere

"Like it's going to come out of nowhere..."

I shared a reading with a woman this weekend, and while I'd seen her before, she came to me as a "check-up" of sorts, a way to start the new year and to address some new happenings in her life.

Her grandmother was there with her immediately, sharing in her wisdom and her love, wanting her granddaughter to live her best life. Part of this woman's frustration was her relationship with her husband - and I can tell you that out of the thousands of readings I've given, men are the worst problems women have to deal with in life.

Her husband wasn't a bad man, but their relationship needed some...calibration. She wasn't exactly happy with where their life was and it needed some work. She had to find it within herself to find the strength to approach her husband, a loyal and dedicated man, about some of his habits, routines, and perceptions and how they were affecting their life together.

Over the course of the next 90 minutes, her ancestors and spirits passed me through all sorts of information for her. Where she was doing well, where she needed improvement, etc. At the end of the reading, she received what she came for - validation that she was on the right track, and part of that was trusting in her own intuition.

And her own intuition came into play greatly through the whole reading - her grandmother told her that she already knew the answers to what she was seeking, and the reason she hadn't executed those particular answers was that they were extremely difficult. But this woman did know what she had to do and she confirmed that her intuition was telling her that was correct.

At the end of the reading, she had a couple questions, to which I answered as best I could. One of them was in regard to her intuition - she had this feeling that she couldn't explain, a premonition of sorts, that something was going to come out of nowhere and hit her husband hard. This wasn't her being paranoid, as she generally wasn't a paranoid or anxious person, but this was something she could feel coming. It wasn't like one of those feelings you have when you leave the house and wonder if you shut the stove off - this was like feeling a storm was just over the horizon. She didn't feel like it was dangerous or threatening in any way but she had the feeling it was going to affect their lives, significantly.

She was intuitive - and you'll never hear me spout off with any New Age cockamamy like "Everyone's psychic" or "Everyone's a healer." I do believe that people with the ability to hear spirits and communicate with them are rare, I do believe that people who can manipulate energies to help heal others are rare - to say that everyone is a healer or everyone is a psychic is like saying that everyone is an NBA player. That's just not accurate.

But what I will say is - a lot of people have intuition, if not everyone. A lot of people feel hunches, nudges, and intuitions about people and situations. A lot of people find misery in their lives because they don't listen to that intuition.

In my work, I don't do much with future work - there's already a lot in our pasts and presents that affect our lives. Also, if "They" were to give me too much information about the future, a lot of people would try to do something to make that thing happen and end up making it not happen. There's also not a lot that's etched in the stone of our future - they're a lot more fluid than we know.

And this is what I had to tell this woman about her premonition:

She was accurate. Something was going to come out of nowhere and "hit" her husband.

And that thing was her.

Generally speaking, most men don't mature until they're about 40. Some sooner, some later, yet men are the biggest problem women have to face because most of them get to about 12-years-old and just...STOP. A majority of men are petty, selfish, can't take criticism, place the blame of their actions on the shoulders of others...just like most 12-year-olds.

And not to say that her husband was like this - he felt like a pretty good guy. It's just that no matter how mature a man (or woman!) is, it's very hard to hear criticism or negative feedback about our behaviors. Especially men, who take so much pride in the lives they lead, whether that pride is warranted or not.

I had to explain to this woman that her husband was going to be hit out of nowhere - by her, and her coming to him with her concerns. Even if she approached him and brought him her concerns in the best way possible he was still going to react in a negative way. But just like I told her - if someone we love loves us in return, they'll put in the work to make themselves easier to love. They'll (eventually!) listen to our concerns and work to make us happier.

This woman was astounded, not only because she was right in her assumptions, but because I wrapped her mind around a situation in a way that she wouldn't have been able to see prior.

She was the event. She was what was headed in her husband's direction.

Yet this would be no car accident, no tragedy...as long as he truly loves her. I'm convinced and have absolute faith in, that people who claim to love others will put in all the work that's required to make the lives of their loved ones easier.

That, my friends...that's what love is.